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Wrong Number Text Scam: Why You Shouldn't Reply

A friendly text meant for 'someone else' can be the first step of a romance or investment scam. Why it's safe to ignore it and what to do instead.

By Nathan Fielder Checked against official sources

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A wrong number text scam starts with a friendly message that seems meant for someone else. If you reply, the stranger keeps chatting and may later steer you toward a romance or a fake investment. The FTC says it's not rude to ignore texts from numbers you don't know. Don't reply; delete the message and report it as junk.

A wrong number text scam begins with a message that looks like an honest mistake: a casual greeting, a question for someone with a different name, or a reminder about plans you never made. You reply to say they have the wrong number. They apologize, they’re friendly, and the conversation keeps going. That’s the point.

The FTC says scammers use these casual openers to start a conversation. “Wrong number” texts were among the top text scams people reported to the FTC in 2024. For the full list, see our guide to scam text messages.

What is a wrong number text scam?

It is a long con that starts small. According to the FTC, the sender usually apologizes for the “mistake” and then works on building rapport and trust. Over time, the new “friend” offers advice on investing in cryptocurrency, or claims they can teach you how to earn big profits, usually for a fee. It’s a scam meant to take your money.

EXAMPLE — SCAM
(415) 555-0186 Text message

Good morning Carol! It’s Grace from the garden club. Did you still want my lemon cake recipe? 😊

A 'wrong number' text that opens a long con This is a made-up example based on real scam reports. Never reply to, call, or tap links in messages like this.

Why do scammers pretend they texted the wrong person?

Because it feels harmless to answer. A stranger asking for money would get ignored; a polite mix-up gets a polite reply. And the FTC says even a reply that ends the conversation confirms your number is active, which can lead to more scam calls and texts.

Is it rude to ignore a text from a stranger?

No. The FTC’s 2024 alert was titled “Why it’s not rude to ignore ‘hi, how are you?’ text messages from strangers.” Its first tip is simple: don’t reply to text messages from unknown numbers. If someone you know really texted from a new number, they’ll find another way to reach you.

How does a wrong number text turn into an investment scam?

Slowly. The FTC says the sender builds rapport and trust first, then turns the conversation to money: advice on investing in cryptocurrency, or lessons on how to earn big profits, for a fee. The same opening shows up in trading scams. If the chat turns romantic, see the signs of a romance scammer.

The FTC’s warning: don’t trust anyone who says you can quickly and easily make money. All investments involve some chance of loss, and only scammers promise fast, riskless profits.

What should you do with a wrong number text?

Follow the FTC’s tips:

  1. Don’t reply. Not even to say “wrong number.”
  2. Delete and report it. Use your phone’s option to report junk, or forward it to 7726 (SPAM). See how to report a scam text.
  3. Never click links in an unexpected message. They can expose your data or install software that gives criminals access to your device.
  4. If you lost money, report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov and follow our first-hour checklist after a scam.

To cut down on these messages in the first place, see how to stop spam texts.

Red flags: how to spot this scam

  1. A text from a number you don't know opens with a casual greeting, or asks for someone by a name that isn't yours.
  2. When you say they have the wrong number, they apologize warmly and keep the conversation going.
  3. After a few days or weeks of friendly chat, they bring up cryptocurrency, an investment app or a way to 'earn big profits.'

What to do

  1. Don't reply to texts from numbers you don't know, not even to say 'wrong number.'
  2. Delete the message and report it with your phone's 'Report junk' option, or forward it to 7726 (SPAM).
  3. Never click links in an unexpected text.
  4. Don't trust anyone who says you can quickly and easily make money.
  5. If you lost money, report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

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Where to report it

Reporting helps investigators spot patterns and warn others — even if you did not lose money. Type these addresses yourself or use the links below; do not use links from a suspicious message.

  • Federal Trade Commission (FTC)

    Any scam, fraud or bad business practice — calls, texts, emails, websites and impostors.

    ReportFraud.ftc.gov

  • Federal Communications Commission (FCC)

    Unwanted robocalls, spoofed caller ID and spam texts.

    consumercomplaints.fcc.gov

  • FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3)

    Online and computer-related fraud, including tech-support, romance, investment and crypto scams.

    IC3.gov

You can also report to your state attorney general. If you sent money, call your bank or card company right away using the number on the back of your card.

Frequently asked questions

Should I tell them they have the wrong number?

No. The FTC's advice is not to reply to text messages from unknown numbers. Even a short reply tells the sender your number is active, which can lead to more scam calls and texts.

Is it rude to ignore a text from a stranger?

No. The FTC put it plainly in a 2024 alert: it's not rude to ignore 'hi, how are you?' texts from strangers. A real person who texted the wrong number will figure it out.

How do I report a wrong number text?

Use your messaging app's 'Report junk' or 'Report spam' option, or forward the text to 7726 (SPAM). If you lost money, report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

Sources

We rely on official government sources. Read how we check facts in our editorial policy.

  1. FTC consumer alert: Why it's not rude to ignore "hi, how are you?" text messages from strangers (June 3, 2024) (consumer.ftc.gov, accessed )
  2. FTC Data Spotlight: Top text scams of 2024 (April 2025) (ftc.gov, accessed )
  3. FTC: How To Recognize and Report Spam Text Messages (consumer.ftc.gov, accessed )

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